Wedding Prayers and Blessings

One of the main characteristics of Tenrikyo belief is that it is purported to be based on the "direct" revelation of God, Tenri-O-no-Mikoto, through founder Miki Nakayama (who is referred to as Oyasama by Tenrikyo adherents). This idea of a direct revelation is expressed in Scripture that God had become "openly revealed" through Oyasama as God's "Shrine." Although Tenrikyo accepts the validity of other religious faiths as "nine-tenths of the complete teachings," Oyasama's revelation is said to comprise the "final teaching" that will allow human beings accomplish the purpose of creation.

History

The Tenrikyo worldview includes belief in "rebirth," which may be compared to ideas concerning reincarnation in Hinduism and Buddhism to some degree. Yet it must be mentioned that the terms "reincarnation" or "afterlife" are not usually used by Tenrikyo adherents. The Tenrikyo worldview does not include beliefs in realms other than the living world, i.e., there is no belief in heaven(s) or hell(s).
When a person passes away, the spirit of the person is said to be "embraced" by God until he or she is ready to be reborn. When a baby is born into a Tenrikyo family, there is sometimes speculation who the baby might be. Things such as birthmarks or similar traits (such as a laugh) with deceased family members can take on a deeper significance. Further, at weddings, it is sometimes said that the bride is "returning" to the family she belongs to through the marriage.
Everyone is said to be reborn except Oyasama. Her status is considered special; she is considered to be "everliving."
Tenrikyo followers use the Japanese term denaoshi (come again, make a fresh start) when someone passes away.

The Prayer

God, as you join us today, we ask for your blessings upon this couple as they unite in marriage.

Let all their days together be happy and all their words to each other be sweet.

Though their paths are intertwined, let them be aware of each other’s separateness. Bless their home and allow it to be a place of joy and serenity.

Remind them to nurture each other’s body with mutual love, honor and respect.  Let their spirits dwell within.

As they learn from one another, may they grow stronger as individuals and closer as a couple.

And as their wedded life begins today with prayer, so may they continue it, praying for and with each other.

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